Mr. & Misogyny
Although the title is meant to be witty and slightly humorous in the name of starting a conversation, the people I’m describing can be quite…
Category: Transition to Poly
BDSM 101
What is it? BDSM or Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. Historically it is a coined phrase from the “fathers of sexual deviance,” as I like to call…
Stop Sharing Partners!
As the second eldest of eight children, I learned at an early age the importance of sharing. After a certain amount of children, we became…
BDSM and Polyamory
Jai is back with her story of how BDSM and polyamory intersect. If you missed her first article, check out BDSM 101. I was introduced…
Who is Black & Poly For?
A group members asks the Facebook group to be inclusive. Dear Black & Poly, can we visit or revisit the question of whether all black…
Dear Unicorn Hunters
Dear Unicorn Hunter(s), We don’t hate you. Honestly many of us are looking for the same or similar result. I would take it a step…
Making the Most of Poly Meetups
If you are looking to expand your poly connections, a Meetup is a great way to meet like-minded people. This article will give you suggestions…
What Are You Looking For?
Originally written in 2013, Ron Young poses a series of question that may help you or your potential mates gain a better understanding of what…
Professional Resources
Sometimes you need more than your Black & Poly community. This list of resources can help you find professional help for personal or relationship issues…
The AntiCheat Lie
Can we stop? Seriously, if I hear one more person say the reason they became polyamorous is because they “no longer wanted to be a…