Doin’ It and Doin’ It and Doin’ It Well
In 2017, Ruby Bouie Johnson responded to recent coverage of polyamory in the national news. I’ve had several weeks to reflect on the recent coverage…
Category: Sex
Ask Aunty: Seeking Bisexual Mate
Dear Aunty, How do I find a polyamorous woman to date? I have a wonderful wife and we just agreed to open up our relationship.…
Ask Aunty: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell
Ask Aunty is a regular feature of Black & Poly where real people ask about their polyamorous relationships. Dear Aunty, I’m trying to convince my…
Mr. & Misogyny
Although the title is meant to be witty and slightly humorous in the name of starting a conversation, the people I’m describing can be quite…
BDSM 101
What is it? BDSM or Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. Historically it is a coined phrase from the “fathers of sexual deviance,” as I like to call…
A Little Sugar in My Bowl
Ruby Bouie Johnson gathers wisdom from sexologists and sex therapists. “I want a little sugar In my bowl I want a little sweetness Down in my…
BDSM and Polyamory
Jai is back with her story of how BDSM and polyamory intersect. If you missed her first article, check out BDSM 101. I was introduced…
I Do It For You
When people start exploring polyamory, their reasons for doing so lay out the initial map for the journey. But what happens when your partner tries…