Stop Sharing Partners!
As the second eldest of eight children, I learned at an early age the importance of sharing. After a certain amount of children, we became…
Category: Love
BDSM and Polyamory
Jai is back with her story of how BDSM and polyamory intersect. If you missed her first article, check out BDSM 101. I was introduced…
Finding Partners
A common question for those beginning a polyamorous relationship is: Where do I find partners? The answer is amazingly simple, but this post will break…
Who is Black & Poly For?
A group members asks the Facebook group to be inclusive. Dear Black & Poly, can we visit or revisit the question of whether all black…
What If I Get Jealous?
It’s my right to be hellish. I still get jealous. -Nick Jonas, Jealous Jealousy is common in all human relationships, and if you’re transitioning into…
How to Date as a Couple
Many people who begin the polyamory journey are already married. A common assumption is that the best thing to do would be to date the…
How Do I Convince My Partner?
Polyamory is becoming more and more mainstream, and more people are recognizing that they have the capacity to include more romantic and emotional relationships in…
Black and White
I’m a white man and I want to date black women exclusively…is that so bad? I have no problem with a specific man wanting to…
Long Distance Relationships
Let’s talk Long Distance Relationships, or LDRs as they’re usually abbreviated. In my personal polyamory journey, over 95% of my relationships have been considered long…
What Are You Looking For?
Originally written in 2013, Ron Young poses a series of question that may help you or your potential mates gain a better understanding of what…