How Do I Convince My Partner?
Polyamory is becoming more and more mainstream, and more people are recognizing that they have the capacity to include more romantic and emotional relationships in…
Black and White
I’m a white man and I want to date black women exclusively…is that so bad? I have no problem with a specific man wanting to…
Dear Unicorn Hunters
Dear Unicorn Hunter(s), We don’t hate you. Honestly many of us are looking for the same or similar result. I would take it a step…
Meet the Metamour
Having lived a poly lifestyle for over 10 years, I am familiar with metamour relationships. I have made both friends and enemies with metamours, so…
When Do I Reveal That I’m Poly?
I just started talking to a person that I’m interested in dating. When do I tell them that I’m polyamorous? Polyamory is often described as…
Making the Most of Poly Meetups
If you are looking to expand your poly connections, a Meetup is a great way to meet like-minded people. This article will give you suggestions…
Long Distance Relationships
Let’s talk Long Distance Relationships, or LDRs as they’re usually abbreviated. In my personal polyamory journey, over 95% of my relationships have been considered long…
What Are You Looking For?
Originally written in 2013, Ron Young poses a series of question that may help you or your potential mates gain a better understanding of what…
Tell Me How You Feel
Polyamory is all about communication, and sometimes we don’t have the words to express ourselves. When talking with your partner, reflect on your internal…
Professional Resources
Sometimes you need more than your Black & Poly community. This list of resources can help you find professional help for personal or relationship issues…