What is Polyamory?
Confused about the difference between polyamory, polygamy, swinging, and more? Check out the definitions below for clarity! Polyamory Literally, poly (many) + amor (love). The state or…
Category: Polyamory 101
Poly Reading List
Find out what books are popular for learning about polyamory. More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert Covers…
FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions
What is polyamory? How do I get started? Read on for these questions and more! What is polyamory? Polyamory is the state or practice of…
Ask Aunty: Seeking Bisexual Mate
Dear Aunty, How do I find a polyamorous woman to date? I have a wonderful wife and we just agreed to open up our relationship.…
Ask Aunty: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell
Ask Aunty is a regular feature of Black & Poly where real people ask about their polyamorous relationships. Dear Aunty, I’m trying to convince my…
Three Questions
Wanting to explore an open relationship with your partner? We have many resources to help you navigate your poly journey, but first, ask yourself some…
BDSM 101
What is it? BDSM or Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. Historically it is a coined phrase from the “fathers of sexual deviance,” as I like to call…
The S Word
“You’re just a slut.” That’s the response I get when I describe my style of polyamory to people. I am not married and I don’t…
Black and Poly Dictionary
Confused about all the words used in the poly world? This comprehensive dictionary will help. Use your search function to find out definitions of unicorn,…
Finding Partners
A common question for those beginning a polyamorous relationship is: Where do I find partners? The answer is amazingly simple, but this post will break…