A Little Sugar in My Bowl
Ruby Bouie Johnson gathers wisdom from sexologists and sex therapists. “I want a little sugar In my bowl I want a little sweetness Down in my…
The S Word
“You’re just a slut.” That’s the response I get when I describe my style of polyamory to people. I am not married and I don’t…
Stop Sharing Partners!
As the second eldest of eight children, I learned at an early age the importance of sharing. After a certain amount of children, we became…
BDSM and Polyamory
Jai is back with her story of how BDSM and polyamory intersect. If you missed her first article, check out BDSM 101. I was introduced…
Black and Poly Dictionary
Confused about all the words used in the poly world? This comprehensive dictionary will help. Use your search function to find out definitions of unicorn,…
Finding Partners
A common question for those beginning a polyamorous relationship is: Where do I find partners? The answer is amazingly simple, but this post will break…
Ask Aunty: Black & What Now?
Ask Aunty is a regular feature of Black & Poly where real people ask about their polyamorous relationships. Aunty is here for you, so ask…
Who is Black & Poly For?
A group members asks the Facebook group to be inclusive. Dear Black & Poly, can we visit or revisit the question of whether all black…
What If I Get Jealous?
It’s my right to be hellish. I still get jealous. -Nick Jonas, Jealous Jealousy is common in all human relationships, and if you’re transitioning into…
How to Date as a Couple
Many people who begin the polyamory journey are already married. A common assumption is that the best thing to do would be to date the…